The Motherload
November 5, 2026
The Motherload by Sarah Hoover
What happens when What to Expect When You're Expecting turns out to be
nothing like what you actually experience?
In The Motherload, Sarah Hoover offers a fearless, funny, and deeply honest
account of early motherhood, one that challenges the myth of instant maternal
bliss. Instead of immediate joy, she found herself navigating postpartum
depression, anxiety, rage, brain fog, and the painful loss of identity, intimacy,
and career. As she writes with her signature wit, her newborn was "objectively
a tiny worm, even worse, a worm with my nose."
With remarkable candor and humor, Hoover explores the gap between the
stories women are told about motherhood and the reality many experience but
few feel free to discuss. Despite a loving partner, professional success, and
access to support, she found herself in a profound struggle that ultimately led
to a diagnosis of severe postpartum depression.
At its heart, The Motherload is a powerful memoir about letting go of
impossible expectations, embracing imperfection, and finding compassion for
yourself when life unfolds differently than planned. It's a moving,
thought-provoking, and ultimately hopeful conversation starter about
motherhood, identity, mental health, and the courage to tell the truth.
Whether you're a parent, hope to become one, or simply enjoy compelling
memoirs about resilience and self-discovery, we hope you'll join us for an
engaging discussion of this unforgettable book.
Bios:
Sarah Hoover
After earning degrees from NYU and Columbia, Sarah Hoover built a career in
the art world before turning full time to writing. Her essays on motherhood,
identity, and cultural expectations have appeared in Vogue, The Wall Street
Journal, Psychology Today, The Strategist, Elle, and Harper’s Bazaar amongst
many others. In early 2025, she released her critically acclaimed, unflinching
memoir The Motherload: Episodes from the Brink of Motherhood, an instant
national bestseller, January 2025 Belletrist Book Club pick, and Times (UK)
Book of the Week. The deeply personal and darkly funny critique of modern
motherhood, which is currently in development at 20th Century Fox as an
ongoing television series, has been praised by Oprah Daily as “a long overdue
reality check” and was featured on the Today Show, The View, Morning Joe and
more. Hoover lives in Manhattan with her husband and two kids.
Misty C. Richards, MD, MS
Dr. Misty Richards, Associate Professor, is a child, adult, and reproductive
psychiatrist at UCLA who holds a joint appointment in the Division of Child and
Adolescent Psychiatry and the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology. She
serves as the Program Director for the UCLA Child and Adolescent Psychiatry
Fellowship and is highly involved in medical student education as the Co-Chair
of the UCLA DGSOM Medical Education Committee. Clinically, Dr. Richards
serves as the Director of Infant Mental Health of the UCLA Maternal Mental
Health Intensive Outpatient Program and is also the Co-Founder and Medical
Director of Perinatal Psychiatry for the Maternal Outpatient Mental health
Services (MOMS) Clinic in the Department of OB-GYN. She is a passionate